While grieving, often what we miss the most is the physical presence of a loved one. When that happens, we also deal with what we perceive as the absence of love. Though this may be a feeling you have, know that love always remains. To deal with this, the first thing we can do is to remember the love we have for ourselves. Practice self-love.
Self-love is a vital part of our lives. I remember holding my newborn baby in the middle of the night, just the two of us, and feeling the deepest, most profound love I had ever experienced. That is the same love that we hold inside for ourselves but often don’t pay attention to. To serve yourself the best, pay attention to that love.
Writing letters is a great way to find the answers you are seeking. Try writing a letter to love and see where that takes you. Start your letter by writing “Dear Love,” then write the letter asking the questions that the love inside you will know the answer to. Tell your love how you are feeling and what you would like guidance on. Pour your heart out. Say the things that you hesitate to ask anyone about. Write until you can’t think of anything else to say.
After you write your letter, take a breath and relax. Then, on another piece of paper, write another letter, this time from love to you. Write freely not analyzing what you are writing or thinking about what you think you should write. Just write. Discover what your love wants to say. When you complete the second letter, sign it “With love, from Love.”
You will be amazed. Pay attention and follow the suggestions that your love gives you.
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